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Why I can’t leave my iPhone for Android

Written By Unknown on Rabu, 16 Juli 2014 | 14.41

For Trevor, the iPhone is still king. Source: NewsComAu

Personal Tech Columnist Geoffrey Fowler took the new water-resistant Samsung Galaxy S5 smartphone for a spin, and for a dunkin a margarita, Jell-O, and (yes) a toilet.

EVERY time a new smartphone comes out, I'm lucky enough to get to try it out. Since moving from BlackBerry to iPhone some years ago the iPhone was my main device, and while each and every year several devices tempt me away, I always found myself quickly going back to the iPhone. This year was different.

Over 3 months ago now the Samsung Galaxy S5 and HTC One (M8) were launched. Having looked closely at the Android ecosystem in the months prior, I was pretty confident I could live with Android without losing out on any of my favourite apps.

This year, for perhaps the first time — everything on my iPhone that I used day-to-day, was available on Android.

I even moved my music library into the Google Play Music app so I could be platform agnostic (it works on iPhone also).

With two flagship phones at my disposal, I got rid of the iPhone. I didn't keep it in a drawer to tempt me, I got rid of it.

Maybe bigger isn't always better? Source: NewsComAu

Over the last three months I've happily travelled around the world and gone about my normal business using devices like the Samsung Galaxy S5, HTC One (M8), Motorola Moto X and Sony Xperia Z2 and Z1 compact.

I learned that I prefer the smaller phones — the Z1 compact and Moto X are perfect. Bigger phones have great screens but are clunky to use at times — but that's a very personal thing.

This week though, I'm going back. Back to iPhone.

What I'll miss about Android

Customisation — I've been using the Yahoo Aviate "launcher" which is basically a whole new "look", and while the look is good it's the smarts around it and the way it helps me categorise apps, while still providing a quick list of apps alphabetically and a few other tricky features which make this a great looking interface.

Widgets — Kind of in the same bucket as Customisation, Widgets allow me to access information from apps without going into apps. My Favourite is Racing Elements, a photo based weather app which shows on my home screen, then there is Twitter or Facebook which allow you to scroll through your feed or post without even opening the app.

Facebook Chat Heads — OK I know, it's lame, but it's very cool. When someone sends me a message on Facebook, a little circle appears — on top of anything (in any app) I'm doing, and it's the face/profile of the person sending the message.

I click it to view the conversation, and drag it around if it's in the way, or drag it away to close it. It's great and true multi-tasking which iPhone users would absolutely love.

For Facebook users, Chat Heads is the social networks best mobile feature. Source: Supplied

Favourite Contacts — I don't call that many people, but the few I do, well — accessing them fast is great. From widgets on your home screen to frequent contacts in the dialler, it makes life super easy. (*Frequent contacts is coming to iOS in September with iOS8 — and is already within the dialler of iOS)

Smart Watch connectivity — I was really loving the Samsung Gear 2 — just a great device, but sadly, works only with Samsung phones. We've got to move to an open system here — sadly, I think we'll have two ecosystems here also, but Android vs. iOS is better than just Samsung to Samsung

Where Google needs to improve Android

Pop Ups — OK, you want to add a photo to a tweet, or share it — which app would you like to use? Gallery? Photos? WHAT? GO AWAY — just show me the photos! I get asked time and time again when I click a link — which browser should I use, when I click a video — do I want to use YouTube or a Browser? Seriously, this is Windows-like annoying and Google has to stop it. It's terrible.

Anyone who has used an Android device knows how annoying this can be. Source: Supplied

Responsiveness — There are times when even the best device just seems to get sluggish. From the unlock screen to streaming Bluetooth music while using Google Maps for navigation — it's just not perfect at all times and has frustrated me

Gallery — Google, don't let the device makers add their own software. Please. They are ruining your operating system. The Gallery from one phone to another is different, they have multiple gallery apps, some sort by date some by album, all are hard to navigate. KISS — Keep it simple stupid.

Play Store — It's good, but not great. Curate, Curate, Curate. Get rid of the crap — it's boosting your numbers, but ruins the experience.

App Design — I don't know why — but I suspect it's the million combinations of screen resolutions that developers need to cater for that means they can't make apps look as good as they do on iOS — either that, or they are just lazy — but at times you find apps which are simply beautiful on iOS and are just "OK" on Android. It's frustrating.

There is no doubt that Android has a higher total device penetration than iOS, that's what happens when you have hundreds of phones compared to two or three running the operating system. There is also no doubt that the switch from iPhone to Android is now easier and better than ever before.

At the end of the day, my hand is yet again holding this device. Source: Getty Images

What Android needs is consistency — one user needs to be able to help another, and when a HTC user can't quickly help a Samsung user it's not a consistent experience.

More than anything though, the ecosystem of Apple is pulling me back — and with my wife and kids using iOS it's hard to be the odd one out.

I can't wait to review more Android phones, the experience has gone from being a "quick week" to several months without any concern — this is a very good thing for the Android platform.

This article originally appeared on Everything for the Man. You can follow Trevor Long on Twitter here.


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Jail for superglue bum-lift ’surgeon’

Fake doctor Liliana Coello (inset). Source: NewsComAu

A FAKE doctor who botched at least two bottom enhancements performed at her "home office" has been sentenced to two years in jail.

Liliana Coello, 40, had pleaded guilty to unlawfully practising medicine and seriously injuring a patient on two occasions.

New York's State Supreme Court heard one of the victims, a 40-year-old Brooklyn nightclub worker, paid Coello AUD$2,400 for bottom enhancement injections.

CELEBRITY PLASTIC SURGEON AGREES TO $25M PAYOUT AFTER LIPO DEATH

Days later, the woman returned, complaining of agonising pain and swelling. Coello subsequently injected her with what she said was penicillin and applied Krazy Glue — a brand of superglue sold in the US — to the leaking wounds.

Krazy Glue should really only ever be used on inanimate objects Source: Supplied

The ''patient'' developed a severe infection which required urgent hospital treatment and two readmissions, the court heard.

Authorities identified the original substance injected into the woman's behind as "consistent with silicon and kerosene".

The court heard the woman was likely to face health problems for the rest of her life as a result of Coello's actions.

In March, a 22-year-old Manhattan woman died after receiving an amateur silicone injection to her bottom.


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Where did Diet Coke hunk’s nipples go?

Written By Unknown on Selasa, 15 Juli 2014 | 14.41

Where is his nip? Source: Supplied

HAVE you seen this man's nipples?

No. And THAT is exactly the problem.

A new UK Diet Coke ad which shows a shirtless man pouring himself a glass of the low-calorie soft drink has raised eyebrows after people realised that something is missing ... his nipples.

The ad has run in both magazines and on billboards. Source: Supplied

The M. I. A nip has left fans asking if this hunk has either an astounding genetic anomaly or, more likely, is the victim of a staggering Photoshop fail.

Or maybe it just fell off from drinking too much Diet Coke?

Either way, it certainly proves the point of those behind the #FreeTheNipple movement, who argued that nipples should not be censored or banned on social media sites such as Instagram.

But how do you do it if there's no nipple to be freed in the first place?

Now, there's a dilemma.


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Judge’s ‘scepticism’ at Baden-Clay parole

Remembering Allison Baden-Clay.

GERARD Baden-Clay has been found guilty of the murder of wife Allison Baden-Clay and been sentenced to life imprisonment with a 15-year non-parole period.

The former Brookfield real estate agent, 43, pleaded not guilty in the Supreme Court at Brisbane at the opening of his trial six weeks ago.

A jury of seven men and five women delivered its verdict shortly after 11.50am today after deliberating for 21 hours before reaching a decision.

REVEALED: What the jury wasn't told about Baden-Clay

ALLISON'S FAMILY: 'I know you did it, you know you did it'

Justice John Byrne asked the jury to retire to deliberate on Thursday at 11.10am.

Jurors lined up across one side of the court as they were asked by the judge's associate: "Do you find the defendant Gerard Robert Baden-Clay guilty or not guilty of murder?''

The family of Allison Baden-Clay, including her parents Geoff and Priscilla Dickie, who are seated in the packed public gallery of court 11, cheered as the jury replied: "Guilty".

The accused was seated in the dock and stood to talk to his lawyer Peter Shields as the judge discharged the jury and thanked them for their service.

Justice Byrne told the jurors he was grateful for their service.

Gerard and Allison Baden-Clay.

Crown prosecutor Todd Fuller QC said Baden-Clay had multiple pressures weighing down on him on the night his wife disappeared on April 19, 2012: from her, his mistress Toni McHugh and as a result of a real estate business that was mired in debt.

He said the accused "efficiently and effectively" killed his wife, probably smothering her, as she fought for her life at their home on Brookfield Road.

He said Ms Baden-Clay scratched her husband's face as she fought him off.

"They are fingernail marks, they are on his face, they occurred after his children went to sleep and before his children got up," Mr Fuller said.

"There was a struggle between the two of them and she left her mark upon him.

Jurors in the Gerard Baden-Clay trial have asked for clarification about using circumstantial evidence.

"They are damning and link to the act of violence without any doubt."

He said Baden-Clay dragged his wife's body across the back patio of their homes, where leaves unique to the property became entangled in her hair and clothing, and then placed her in the back of the family's silver-coloured Holden Captiva.

Mr Fuller said rivulets of Ms Baden-Clay's blood were found in the rear of the car.

He said the accused drove her body 13km away to the Kholo Creek Bridge at Anstead, parked on the side of Mt Crosby Rd and dragged her down below the bridge, pushing or rolling her off the concrete culvert at the bottom to the mud bank below.

Baden-Clay reported his wife missing the next morning, contacting 000 at 7.15am.

Despite a massive search by police and SES throughout the Brookfield area, Ms Baden-Clay's body was not found until April 30, 2012.

He was arrested by police for her murder on June 13, 2012.

Baden-Clay steadfastly maintained his innocence during his five-week trial, even getting in the witness box to declare he did not kill his wife and raising doubts about her mental health in the lead-up to her death.

Revelations of his long-running affair with Ms McHugh and trysts with other women throughout his 14-year marriage with his wife painted a picture that their union was anything but happy.

Jurors on the case of alleged wife killer Gerard Baden-Clay are set to resume their deliberations.

In the lead-up to his wife's disappearance, Gerard Baden-Clay sent secret emails to Ms McHugh promising he loved her unconditionally and would be out of his marriage by July 1, 2012.

In testimony, however, Baden-Clay said he never intended to leave his wife for Ms McHugh and he was just "placating" her.

But the words in Ms Baden-Clay's diary showed she was hurt and fearful of her loveless marriage, blaming herself for her husband's lack of intimacy as he met with Ms McHugh after working hours behind her back.

"I would give anything if my partner would love me and make love to me," she wrote.

The jury was also told of Baden-Clay's spiralling debt woes.

He loaned $270,000 from a trio of financially savvy friends in early 2011 to help rescue the business from overspending and a lull caused by the floods.

Separately, he had until June 30 with the option of extending until September 30, to come up with $270,000 in order to buy out the rent roll of his business from two partners.

Mr Fuller argued a separation with his wife would cause the accused financial losses but it also grew evident he stood to gain from two life insurance policies.

Baden-Clay countered that his father had worked in the industry and urged him to take out the policies, as well as make a claim the day after his wife's body was found.

The Supreme Court judge in the trial of Gerard Baden-Clay has warned jurors not to seek outside assistance.

Mr Fuller argued Baden-Clay was practised in deception.

"Now, do we know anybody who is good at covering their tracks, avoiding suspicion, hiding from what they have done from others, keeping up appearances in adversity, willing to do or say to people whatever they need to protect their own position? Somebody who has lived a lie," he said.

Gerard Baden-Clay said he had nothing to say on why sentence should not be passed on him.

Crown prosecutor Todd Fuller QC said the accused had no previous criminal history and had been held in custody since his arrest on June 14, 2012.

He tendered a pre-sentence custody certificate to the court that indicated Baden-Clay had been in jail for 762 days.

Members of the Baden-Clay family read victim impact statements to the court.

Ms Baden-Clay's mother, Priscilla Dickie, read hers first from the witness box.

"She was an incredible achiever," she said,.

Ms Dickie said it was obvious to her that one of the last things her daughter did was to "leave her mark on her husband".

The jury in the Gerard Baden-Clay murder trial are still deliberating, determining the fate of the accused wife killer

She said she waited for 10 days at the Brookfield Showgrounds for news her daughter's body was found.

"We went from being a happily retired couple ... to being guardians for three young girls," she said.

"The impact of finding out about the troubled relationship over the past few years has been distressing. It has devastated me to know Allison had been living in a fearful relationship and had been trying to handle such a situation alone."

Ms Dickie said Baden-Clay's affairs, self-interest and lies had disgusted her and her family.

"He betrayed her. He has made a mockery of their marriage and their life together," she said.

She said he had shown no remorse.

"For the love of her husband and her children, Allison stayed and she died," Ms Dickie said.

She said the impact of her daughter's death had completely changed her life and that of her family.

"Allison did not leave her girls. She had so much to offer them, she just loved them," she said.

Ms Dickie said they had all been loved of Allison's love and guidance.

She said the support of family and friends gave her the strength to carry on as they waited for news following the disappearance of her daughter on April 20, 2012.

"We were shocked that after all that time, her husband did not once come to search at the command centre," she said.

"No one can take the place of a mother and my heart breaks as I do my very best to."

She said she now cared for her grandchildren.

"They miss her terribly and cry for her every night. The girls will never see their mother again, not just now, but ever," she said.

Ms Dickie said through tears it was heartbreaking the three girls had been deprived of the love of a caring and devoted mother.

"The tragedy of it all is that she had so much to offer," she said.

"Our lives are so very different, everything has changed."

She said her life now revolved around her three grandchildren.

"You have changed your daughter's destiny and sentenced them to a journey they must take through life as a mother," she said.

Family and friends of Allison Baden-Clay celebrate the guilty verdict of Gerard Baden-Clay at his murder trial. Picture: Darren England. Source: News Corp Australia

Allison Baden-Clay's father Geoff Dickie read his victim impact statement to the court.

He said he was a grandfather to three girls, now aged 13, 10 and seven.

He said he had been devastated by his daughter's death.

Mr Dickie said his daughter was intelligent and friendly who lived as an exchange student in Denmark after school.

He said she travelled the world and studied languages.

Mr Dickie said his daughter gave up her career to raise a family with her husband but "paid the ultimate price".

"From the time we received the phone call on the 20th of April, my life has changed," Mr Dickie said.

"As a result of the murder of our daughter, I am living an entirely different lifestyle ... and it has left an enormous black hole from which I will never recover."

Mr Dickie said he still woke in the middle of the night and struggled to sleep, thinking about the moment his daughter was attacked.

"I will strive to live life to the maximum due to the fact I have the immense privilege to care for Allison's three beautiful daughters," he said.

He said he would not change anything about his life now, unless he could bring his daughter back.

Mr Dickie said he tried to help his grandchildren live the life their mother would have wanted.

"They woke up the next morning to find their mum missing forever, they did not have a chance to say goodbye," he said.

Mr Dickie said the girls had been left with pain and disappointment.

"A father's duty is to protect and care for his daughter ... I failed in that duty to my daughter and I will have to live that for the rest of my life," he said.

He told Baden-Clay he was devastated and outraged by the way he had sullied his daughter's life.

"The girls' father has taken their mother from them forever ... Allison, I love you and miss you and you will be in my heart forever," he said.

Evidence presented in the murder trial of Gerard Baden-Clay. Source: CourierMail

Allison Baden-CLay's sister, Vanessa Fowler, then addressed the court.

She said her sister "left this Earth too young".

"I feel cheated that I never got to say goodbye, I have been robbed of a life together with my sister. We will never get to have that one last cup of coffee together ... I miss her," Ms Fowler said.

She said she had moved from the Gold Coast to Brisbane to help support her parents and help them look after her sister's three daughters.

Ms Fowler said she was a supporter and carer to her three nieces.

"Allison inspired me to be a better person. A better mother. She loved life, loved her daughters and was loved by all," she said.

She said her sister was strong, resilient, compassionate and fun.

Ms Fowler said her sister had four businesses on the go, three children and two mistresses to deal with, making her very strong.

"Allison never allowed depression to take over her life, she was never so debilitated she could not function," she said.

She said Ms Baden-Clay was passionate about building resilience in young children through the Pathways program.

She said her death had left a dark void.

"We remember her smile, her laughter, her friendship and her love, for this is how she lived her life," she said.

Ms Fowler said she felt great sadness for her sister's daughters.

"Despite the stresses in her life, Allison's care of her children was her utmost priority ... during this trial there has been an overemphasis and exaggeration of the negative aspects of her life," she said.

She said her sister had been ridiculed, degraded and belittled during the trial.

"This was inflicted on her in life and now in death," she said.

She told Baden-Clay her sister had left her mark on him to make sure he paid for his "evil ways".

'It is because of you that numerous lives have been changed forever," she said.

Ms Fowler said Baden-Clay had showed no remorse, carrying on like "business as usual" while his wife lay cold and wet under a bridge.

"For the first time since she married you, she has come out on top," she said to the accused.

Ms Fowler said it had been proven her sister did not take her life or "go for a walk and die".

"Only two people know the answer to those questions. One is dead at the hands of another," she said.

She said her sister's life was cut short because of greed and self-satisfaction.

She said her sister's only crime was to be loved and love.

A victim impact statement from Ashley Dickie, Allison' Baden-Clay's younger brother, could not make the verdict, so it was read to the court by Vanessa Fowler.

She said "I know you did it, you know you did it" and whatever time he spent in jail would not be enough.

Justice John Byrne then started to sentence Gerard Baden-Clay.

Supporters release yellow balloons after the verdict in the Baden-Clay murder trial. Picture: Jack Tran Source: News Corp Australia

He said Allison Baden-Clay knew nothing about the resumption of her husband's affair with Toni McHugh on April 19, 2012.

He said if the two women were to meet the next day at a real estate conference, the consequences could have been "dramatic".

He said Baden-Clay's unsuspecting wife was doing her best to maintain the marriage.

Justice Byrne said Allison Baden-Clay was tormented by her husband's affair and questioned him about it that night.

"All the pressures proved too much for you.

"The prosecution suggests you smothered Allison and that looks likely, but whatever the means, your violent attack caused her death," he said.

"Your fingernails scratched her face. The act of a desperate woman struggling for life. Those marks are only consistent with your guilt."

He said Baden-Clay's conduct after his wife's murder had been "shameful" and spoke of a "profound absence of remorse".

Justice Byrne said the accused dumped his wife's body in an undignified way, exposed to the elements, under a bridge, and put into place a plan of deception.

He said Baden-Clay used a razor blade to cut himself where his wife had scratched him, "trying to disguise the injury she had inflicted in defending herself".

"You drove around the streets of Brookfield pretending to look for her," he said.

"You have insinuated that mental illness may have led to drug overdose or suicide and besmirching Allison's memory in that way is thoroughly reprehensible," he said.

He said the accused was definitely not of good character, despite having no criminal history.

"You are given to lies and deception," he said.

Justice Byrne said 15 years was the minimum parole eligibility date for the accused, but any application by Baden-Clay would need to be considered by a future parole board with "considerable scepticism".

"The community, acting through the court, denounces your lethal violence," he said.

"The impacts on Allison's family have been grave. Their victim impact statements poignantly depicts their pain.

"You took a devoted, loving mother from her three girls, blighting their lives."

He declared 762 days in pre-sentence custody as time served.

Justice Byrne sentenced Baden-Clay to life in jail with a 15-year non-parole period.

Lawyers for Gerard Baden-Clay, Peter Shields and barrister Michael Byrne QC, told media outside the Brisbane Supreme Court that their client was distraught by the verdict.

"Not withstanding that, my client and his family will continue to support each other through this very difficult stage," Mr Shields said.

He asked media to give Baden-Clay's family space in the following days.

"It's important to understand my client's family is not on trial here, they should be left alone and their privacy should be respected," Mr Shields said.

Mr Shields said it would not be appropriate to comment on an appeal at this stage.

Allison's best friend Kerry-Anne Walker spoke to a crowd of waiting media on behalf of the Dickie family.

"It has been a long wait over the last two years, and this result today marks the beginning of our long journey towards healing, and finally allowing us to mourn and grieve for this beautiful woman," she said.

"Today is not a win for our family, for it will not bring our beautiful Allison back.

"However, it is the closure of another chapter in this journey for our family.

"We have lost Allison and nothing that has happened here will bring her back.

"We as a family will grieve her tragic death forever, the memories tarnished by the fact that she was taken from us in such horrific circumstances."

Read the full statement from Allison's family here.

Detective Superintendent Mark Ainsworth told the media that today's verdict culminated two years of pain and suffering for the Dickie family.

"Personally, myself and other members of the police that have had to deal with the family throughout this trauma have been overwhelmed in the way they've dealt with the matter," he said.

"When our first response officers, the uniform response officers attended the call made by Gerard reporting his wife missing, the work that they demonstrated was nothing short of outstanding.

"They formed a suspicion very early in the piece, contacted their supervisors, who again performed some outstanding work notifying the CIB at any early stage.

"The detectives from Indooroopilly CIB that responded and ramped this investigation up to a high level at a very early stage should be commended in relation to their activities."

Det Supt Ainsworth said the investigation was conducted in two parts - the search for Allison and the Major Incident Room where detectives gathered evidence on her killer.

He said every officer should be commended for their efforts.

Det Supt Ainsworth said SES volunteers and police were engaged in a relentless search.

He thanked the SES for their invaluable help.

"These are volunteers who gave up their work time, took holidays to assist in searching for Allison,'' Det Supt Ainsworth said.

He also thanked the Dickie family, who remained at the search site all day, every day.

"The support that family gave us under the circumstances I have never ever seen before. It was overwhelming and encouraged the police to conduct the search in the manner we did," he said.

"Things that we've never seen before in our experience - police officers giving up days off, public holidays, police recruits doing the same ... everyone determined to find Allison.

"One disappointment out of this investigation, if anything, was the time it took us to find Allison."

Detective Superintendent Brian Wilkins, who headed the Homicide Squad at the time, acknowledged the commitment and engagement of all police involved in the investigation.

"That starts from our general duties police that turned up at the crime scene first up, our forensic services police, our investigators from State Crime, the Homicide Squad, Indooroopilly CIB, all of whom have committed significant amounts of their life to this investigation,'' he said.

Det Supt Wilkins said police were also grateful for the efforts of the expert witnesses, in particular hydrologist Martin Giles and botanist Dr Gordon Guymer.

Follow the trial of the year day-by-day here:

DAY 20: Question stops jury deliberations

DAY 19: Jury warned on outside sources

DAY 18: Judge says manslaughter an option

DAY 17: Judge begins summing up

DAY 16: 'It was an efficient, effective killing'

DAY 15: 'She can't sleep, she's up alone, what if ...'

DAY 14: 'You killed your wife.' 'No, I did not.'

DAY 13: Allison's journal 'untrue', says Baden-Clay

DAY 12: Baden-Clay's love triangle email trail

DAY 11: Baden-Clay's tears as he takes the stand

DAY 10: How it unfolded as the Crown rests

DAY 9: Plants on Allison found at her home

DAY 8: Jurors inspect site where body found

DAY 7: Neighbour's explanation for scream

DAY 6: Scratches not typical of razor

DAY 5: Listen to triple-0 call to police

DAY 4: Accused told lover to lie low

DAY 3: Neighbours heard screams

DAY 2: Daughter's tape brings tears

DAY 1: Photo shock in murder trial

Originally published as Judge's 'scepticism' at Baden-Clay parole
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Eerie look inside an abandoned airport

Written By Unknown on Senin, 14 Juli 2014 | 14.41

The abandoned Ellinikon International Airport. Picture: Vassilis Makris Source: Supplied

IT'S a haunting sight: planes sit on the runway, but they don't go anywhere. Chairs are scattered across the terminal, but nobody sits on them. Escalators take prime position, but they haven't moved in more than a decade.

Welcome to Ellinikon International Airport.

Built in 1938, it was the first airport for Greece's capital of Athens and remained its hub for 60 years.

However it was closed back in 2001 and has now fallen into ruins, with these stark photographs taken by local Vassilis Makris showing its eerie remains.

Chairs that will remain empty. Picture: Vassilis Makris Source: Supplied

Construction of the airport was halted while it was used as a base for the German air force during the Nazi occupation in World War II, when it was known as Kalamaki Airfield.

In the decades following, it served up to 12 million passengers a year.

Planes sit on the runway, going nowhere. Picture: Vassilis Makris Source: Supplied

It may soon be given a new lease of life may, with plans to redevelop it released by Lamda Development, the UK's Telegraph reported. It's hoped the airport will be turned into a huge park and marina, including shops and hotels.

Empty escalators. Picture: Vassilis Makris Source: Supplied

Nobody's here. Picture: Vassilis Makris Source: Supplied

The airport hasn't been cleaned for years. Picture: Vassilis Makris Source: Supplied

A cracked runway. Picture: Vassilis Makris Source: Supplied

The surrounds of the airport are also abandoned. Picture: Vassilis Makris Source: Supplied

A ruined plane left on the runway. Picture: Vassilis Makris Source: Supplied

It's a haunting sight. Picture: Vassilis Makris Source: Supplied

Graffiti abounds. Picture: Vassilis Makris Source: Supplied

The departures area, is less run-down than other parts of the old airport. Picture: Vassilis Makris Source: Supplied

Fenced in. Picture: Vassilis Makris Source: Supplied

Dead trees left to rot at the airport. Picture: Vassilis Makris Source: Supplied

The airport may soon be revamped. Picture: Vassilis Makris Source: Supplied


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Can a ‘monogamish’ relationship really work?

Can a 'monogamish' relationship, like the one between Javier Bardem and Scarlett Johansson's characters in Vicky Cristina Barcelona, really work? Photo: The Weinstein Company. Source: Supplied

THE Third Way was a political ideology in vogue in the '90s: a socially inclusive middle path between old-style socialism and free-market capitalism.

It eventually ran its course and the governments of the Western world returned to the philosophy they know best: outright avarice.

But, for a time, with notable fans in British PM Tony Blair and US President Bill Clinton,

there was a glimmer of hope there might just be a different way of running countries.

So, if politics was fair game for a new paradigm that wasn't quite Left and wasn't quite Right, why aren't other important things in our lives, such as relationships? What can be more important to any society than love and fostering it?

With around 50,000 divorces in Australia each year — a terrifying statistic — is there a viable Third Way between traditional, white-picket-fence monogamy and joining a polygamous sect in Utah?

Ginnifer Goodwin, Chloe Sevigny, Bill Paxton and Jeanne Tripplehorn star as a polygamous family in 'Big Love'. Source: Supplied

I've been grappling with this issue since a 10-year marriage, my first, ended in 2007.

I was in love with and loved my wife, but another man became involved and she left me.

When a second relationship ended in similar ruin because of an infidelity (hers), I became wary of jumping into another one.

It was easier to flit casually between bed partners rather than committing to one woman and risking having my heart broken again.

I was open to the idea of having another girlfriend or wife, and wanted romantic love, but rarely came across a woman who had the qualities I required to devote myself to them completely — heart, body and soul.

Some women were intellectually stimulating but damp squibs in bed. Others were incredible lovers but dull conversationalists.

Then there were those whose values and lifestyles were incompatible with mine.

But each of them had qualities I admired; I wanted them all in my life in some way without full-blown commitment.

Either I was becoming too fussy (a distinct possibility), running scared from taking the risk of commitment (again, highly possible), or I was moving toward something else altogether: negotiating an emotionally intimate relationship that had a degree of sexual openness, freedom and permissiveness at its core; a new model of loving where I could have my cake, eat it too and not have to apologise to anyone.

Some call it 'don't ask, don't tell' or DADT. Is it love's Third Way?

Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt are rumoured to have been in an open relationship. Photo: Frazer Harrison. Source: Getty Images

So many men and women have been burned by relationships that have failed because of infidelity.

Meanwhile, the inexhaustible choices of potential lovers facilitated by social media, dating sites and hook-up apps is, in turn, seeing an exponential unwillingness among many men and women to stick with one partner or settle for second best.

It's very hard to find a single person who possesses all the qualities we want.

Even when we do, not everyone is prepared to give up their freedom. Which is where a DADT approach to relationships comes in.

Filmmakers have tapped into the sexual zeitgeist, releasing films that challenge abiding moral values, such as Vicky Cristina Barcelona and Hall Pass.

There is endless speculation about which celebrity couples have or have had 'open' relationships (Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie, Justin Timberlake and Jessica Biel, Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith have all been the subjects of such rumours) or are even using the cloak of marriage to disguise their hidden sexual orientations.

Countless men and women in long-term relationships or marriages are cheating; thinking about cheating but too afraid; or going to sex workers to pay for what they can't get at home and pretending they're single.

As Madison Ashton, aka Christine McQueen, Australia's leading escort (or as she prefers to describe herself, "courtesan"), told me deadpan over coffee: "Clients all lie."

Owen Wilson in 'Hall Pass'. Source: Supplied

So the thinking behind DADT is slightly different to a conventional open or, as Savage

Love sex columnist Dan Savage calls it, "monogamish" relationship, which requires full and honest disclosure.

A friend of mine, John*, who's been married for 20 years and has two kids by his wife, is in such an open or monogamish relationship.

He and his wife are free to have sex with other people, dress each other for dates and share all the details, if they so wish.

In contrast, the basic principle of a DADT relationship is for both partners to do what they like with other people so long as no one knows and never asks.

The upshot? Emotional monogamy, sexual freedom and, crucially, no room for jealousy.

How can you be jealous of something when you don't even know if it's happening?

However, DADT is not perfect.

As John points out: "I don't see how you can have true emotional intimacy without the honest-and open approach. Secrets don't foster intimacy.

"Wherever you have a secret, that's where you're vulnerable."

But is it a secret if no one wants to know?

Penélope Cruz, Javier Bardem and Scarlett Johansson in Vicky, Christina Barcelona. Source: Supplied

Dr David J. Ley, American psychologist and author of The Myth of Sex Addiction and Insatiable Wives: Women Who Stray and the Men Who Love Them, believes it's not just possible to have a genuinely intimate relationship with someone when you have more than one bed partner.

"Sexual fidelity, or monogamy, is a common value met in the exception," he says.

"People aspire to it, but rarely meet it. The thing that varies is how societies view this. American and Australian societies view sexual infidelity as a serious moral issue that reflects a person's overall moral character.

"By contrast, the French and many Europeans view infidelity as a common occurrence, which is not desirable, but does not reflect a major moral failing.

"In many of these cultures, they do embrace DADT, where a husband or wife can agree to not get into each other's business about sexual fidelity, but do agree on the things important to them. "We have difficulty with this, in our societies, because we place so much moral emphasis on sexual fidelity — it becomes an overriding issue."

However, Sydney-based psychologist Victoria Kasunic rejects the idea of DADT being emotionally healthy or sustainable.

"I'm not sure if it's actually about true intimacy — more about avoiding it," she says.

"I think this is more about fear of commitment and intimacy, rather than an authentic expression of a new type of relationship.

Sex columnist Dan Savage and his husband Terry Miller. Photo: Jason Merritt. Source: Getty Images

"Infidelity is never just about sex or lack of sex — it's typically a sign of a breakdown in intimacy and communication in some way.

"Rather than looking outside the relationship to other partners, people need to look at what's going on within the relationship that needs to be worked on.

"[DADT] is more about avoiding the risks that are involved in deeper commitment and intimacy. Unfortunately, you also miss out on all the rewards of it, too."

But Ley won't have a bar of it: "With skyrocketing divorce rates, I think we all, therapists included, have to acknowledge that what we think is 'the right kind of relationship' isn't working long-term, and we need to empower couples and individuals to make informed decisions for themselves."

Which sits easily with me. Total monogamy will remain an aspiration for so many of us, rightly or wrongly. The idea of lifetime fidelity to one person is, despite all its inherent faults, an admirable one.

But we needn't beat ourselves up if we're failing in practice.

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‘The pool was full of blood’

Written By Unknown on Minggu, 13 Juli 2014 | 14.41

Would you have a go at the Vertigo? A 100 kilometer an hour water slide that has seen tourists injured.

Aqualandia in the Spanish resort of Benidorm Source: Supplied

IT'S a thrillseeker's worst nightmare.

A theme park outing went horribly wrong in Spain when a British tourist, Jamie Norman, had his face smashed open while riding a waterslide at Aqualandia, in the resort of Benidorm.

He had been standing in a capsule 33 metres high and it was on his third go that things went wrong. The slide is designed so riders fall down the steep slide, through a trapdoor, and into the water.

But that's not what happened.

Instead a trapdoor failed to open all the way and Mr Norman fell through, crushing his face, legs and arm against it.

The 27-year-old told the The Mirror: "I could have been killed. If I'd been knocked unconscious I could have lost control and fallen and drowned in the pool. I took an almighty crack on my face."

Mr Norman knew something was wrong because the trapdoor didn't clonk when it opened like it had previously.

The Vertigo waterslide where people drop 33m down a steep slide into the water. Source: Supplied

"As I fell I felt it scrape all down my legs and arms and then smack into my face. When I got to the bottom the pool was full of blood."

He told the newspaper that only 10 minutes after the incident the ride was back operating. He believed the staff were more interested in getting him out of the park.

"I was obviously quite distressed but they just said, 'We'll sew you up'. I was treated by an on-site doctor — they didn't bother calling an ambulance or anything.

"A guy turned up who said he was the second manager. He just offered me free tickets for the zoo as he ushered us to the exit."

Big drop — British tourist Jamie Norman fell 33m down this water slide but scrapped past a trap door that hadn't fully opened. Source: Supplied

The incident Mr Norman prompted him to rethink his attitude towards safety. Until now he thought standards in the United Kingdom were too strict but "over there it's something else".

"Just look at my face. How could they say that ride was safe? It ruined the holiday, I was covered in scabs, stitches and bandages."

A spokesman for Aqualandia told The Mirror they made "exhaustive checks" on all their equipment, each day.

"We would never open — or reopen — a ride that wasn't safe."


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Female Yahoo exec sued for harassment

Tech giant Yahoo is standing by its executive Maria Zhang who is accused of sexual harassment. Source: Supplied

A FEMALE executive at tech giant Yahoo is being accused of coercing a staff member into having sex with her and allegedly threatening her with being fired if she didn't.

Maria Zhang allegedly pressured a female staff member, Nan Shi, into sex —but then turned on her and gave her bad performance reviews, according to a lawsuit Ms Shi has filed a lawsuit against her former boss.

Ms Shi alleges that when she reported the behaviour to Yahoo the company put her on unpaid leave and then fired her.

Reuters reported Yahoo was named as a defendant in the case.

The lawsuit says: "Zhang told [Ms Shi] she would have a bright future at Yahoo if she had sex with her. She also stated she could take away everything from her, including her job, stocks, and future if she did not do what she wanted."

In an interview with the San Jose Mercury News Ms Shi described being forced to have sex with Zhang.

"I was in a deep sleep one morning, sleeping on the sofa because she had taken my bed, when she came in without clothes on, crawled into my blanket, and woke me up, hugging me, kissing my face and neck," she said.

Yahoo tech executive Maria Zhang is being accused of sexually harassing a female colleague Source: Supplied

"I woke up and got scared; I was shocked. I said, 'what are you doing?' She said she'd liked me a long time, but I didn't feel the same toward her. I said 'come on, we're friends; I love you as a person, but not as a lover'.''

Court documents seen by the San Jose Mercury News allege Zhang forced her subordinate to work gruelling hours and write work emails in her off-time, "sometimes right after sex".

It will be alleged Zhang "coerced" Ms Shi into having oral and digital sex against her will on a number of occasions.

The two lived together for a time after Ms Shi alleged her boss "ordered" her to live with her in Yahoo housing in Sunnyvale, California.

Both women joined Yahoo last year when it bought a start-up company Ms Zhang founded.

Yahoo is supporting Zhang and has said it will "fight vigorously to clear her name" because there was " absolutely no basis or truth to the allegations against Maria Zhang".

Earlier this year the Silicon Valley Business Journal named Zhang as one of Women of Influence of 2014.

Her profile stated that "she is passionate about supporting women", and "actively mentors other women engineers".


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The Ramones drummer dies

Written By Unknown on Sabtu, 12 Juli 2014 | 14.41

Tommy Ramone plays with the 'Friends Of Joey' all-star lineup honoring the late singer in the annual lymphoma research fundraiser.

RIP ... Dee Dee Ramone with Tommy, Johnny, and Marky - members of punk music rock band The Ramones - being inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame in 2002. Source: AFP

TOMMY Ramone, drummer and last surviving member of influential punk band The Ramones, has died. He was 62.

Variety reports the drummer and producer died on Friday at his home in the Ridgewood area of Queens, New York.

He had been in hospice care following treatment for bile duct cancer.

The band posted a statement on their Twitter account announcing his death:

The band, founded in New York in 1974, had a major influence on punk rock in the US.

All members of the band adopted the surname Ramone although they weren't related.

Born Erdelyi Tamas in Budapest, Hungary, and known professionally as Tom or T. Erdelyi, Ramone played on the first three epoch-making Ramones albums, Ramones (1976), Leave Home (1977) and Rocket to Russia (1977).

He also co-produced the latter two albums with Tony Bongiovi and Ed Stasium, respectively.

He appeared on and co-produced the 1979 live Ramones opus It's Alive.

Epoch-making ... The cover of the 1976 vinyl album "The Ramones" by the Ramones. Source: News Corp Australia

When the Ramones first came together, with Johnny Ramone on guitar, Dee Dee Ramone on bass and Joey Ramone on drums, Erdelyi was supposed to be the manager, but was drafted as the band's drummer when Joey became the lead singer and found that he couldn't keep up with the Ramones' increasingly fast tempos.

"Tommy Ramone, who was managing us, finally had to sit down behind the drums, because nobody else wanted to," Dee Dee later recalled.

Inflential ... Members of punk music rock band 'The Ramones'. Source: News Limited

He remained as drummer from 1974 to 1978, playing on and co-producing their first three albums, Ramones, Leave Home, and Rocket to Russia, as well as the live album It's Alive.

He was replaced on drums in 1978 by Marky Ramone, but handled band management and co-production for their fourth album, Road to Ruin.

He later returned as producer for the eighth album, 1984's Too Tough to Die.

Dee Dee, in his books, expressed resentment towards Tommy for having it "together" more than anyone else in the band, being able to cook himself dinner and organize his life in a much more functional manner, without the psychosis or addiction problems that Dee Dee himself suffered from.

Tommy Ramone wrote "I Wanna Be Your Boyfriend" and the majority of "Blitzkrieg Bop" while bassist Dee Dee suggested the title.

RIP ... Dee Dee Ramone with Tommy, Johnny, and Marky - members of punk music rock band The Ramones - being inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame in 2002. Source: AFP

The Ramones finally disbanded in 1996 after a show at the Palace in Hollywood.

Joey Ramone died of lymphoma in 2001; Dee Dee succumbed to a drug overdose in 2002; and Johnny expired from prostate cancer in 2004.

The Ramones were inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame in 2002.

In later years, Erdelyi went down the acoustic route, playing bluegrass and country music with his partner Claudia Tienan in Uncle Monk.

He is survived by Tienan and an older brother.


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Carbon tax will go says Abbott

Prime Minister Tony Abbott has declared his government won't rest until the carbon tax is gone.

Tough week: Prime Minister of Australia Tony Abbott unwinds at the footy during the match between the Manly Warringah Sea Eagles and the Wests Tigers last night. Photo by Matt King/Getty Images Source: Getty Images

Prime Minister Tony Abbott has vowed that the government will stand firm and will not rest until the carbon tax is gone.

A proposal to repeal the tax was blocked in the Senate on Thursday after the Palmer United Party senators voted against the government plan.

Mr Abbott used a speech to party faithful at the LNP state conference in Brisbane on Saturday to say Thursday's vote won't deter his plans to scrap the tax.

It had been an "interesting week" in the Senate, he said, but the government wouldn't be put off by a bad headline or "one or two parliamentary difficulties".

"If we have a problem one day in the parliament, we will work, we will regroup, we will deal with it the next day," he told the conference.

"If we have a problem, we don't despair, we deal with it.

"We won't rest until the carbon tax is gone. It's adding nine per cent to your power bills. It's a nine billion dollar handbrake on our economy ... it must go."

Prime Minister Tony Abbott at the State Liberal convention at the RNA Convention Centre. Pic Peter Wallis Source: News Corp Australia

Finance Minister Mathias Cormann concurred, telling Sky News: "We are absolutely determined to persist until the carbon tax is gone." Mr Abbott refused to criticise PUP leader Clive Palmer's involvement in last week's Senate vote, instead switching the focus to Labor's reluctance to rid Australia of the tax.

"We know that Mr Palmer will change his mind by Monday, but [opposition leader] Bill Shorten will still be there come Monday, come Tuesday, come next week, come next month, come next year, supporting putting your power prices up," he said.

"Smiling every time your power bill increases." Mr Abbott also defended the government's budget.

As a small but vocal group of protesters railed outside the conference centre against proposals such as the GP co-payment, university deregulation and social welfare reform, Mr Abbott said such measures must be undertaken.

Protesters outside the State Liberal convention at the RNA Convention Centre. Pic Peter Wallis Source: News Corp Australia

"We have to make the tough decisions today to make tomorrow better," he said.

"I say to the critics, `what is your alternative?' Because if you have no ideas of your own, stop wrecking, and let those who have the ideas get on with the job of building a better Australia."


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